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Speak Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces of parents' love to children's self-containment, and the influence on postponing sense of achievement, what kind of influence we might as well see that can't postpone sense of achievement, have as to adult life. Though most adults possess the ability to postpone sense of achievement, they can finish studying in high school and university smoothly, then join in social life, the misfortune not going to prison, however, their development is not still complete, the ability to solve problem is not complete too.

Funny in fact, my in 37 s, just learn to repair daily articles and the utensil, no matter repair the water pipe, repair the electric light before this, return 


Assembling toys or furniture according to the complicated manual, I know nothing, do it once in a while, with confused fail and not depressed to wind uping always too. Though I graduate from the medical college gloriously, then settle and contribute for a long time, and small and successful in psychotherapy and administration, can handle machinery clumsily, look exactly like a stupid fool. I believe feeling self-humiliation that lack a certain gene, it is not a material which solves the mechanical problem innately. In that spring when 37 years old will finish soon, I took a walk outdoors on Sunday, saw neighbours repairing the weeding machine. I have greeted him, say envying: "Oh, you are really competent! I would not always repair this kind of toy, there are other other things. " He will answer at once: "That is that you have not spent time trying. " I continue taking a walk, heart is more and more uncalm, his simple and meaningful words, have given me very great shock. I search one's heart: "The possibility that he says is right. Partner, perhaps you are not really so disappointing, right? "

I bear his words firmly in mind, remind oneself: Will certainly cost time and examine later if there is an opportunity. I have an opportunity to verify this doubt in person soon. A woman patient's car has braked and gone wrong: Blocked the unable activity by anything. The patient tells me: There is one to brake switches under the car instrument board, but she does not know the precise position of the switch, do not know either what form it is. I volunteer to help her to solve this problem. I lie at steering wheel following floor, try hard, remind oneself relax. I vomit the one breath deeply, then observed for several minutes patiently. I can not understand that electric wire, tube, pole into a pile at the moment, what is it about them on earth? I focus attention, follow the trail of the parts related to braking, get a thorough understanding of the operation course of braking. I have found the crux finally - --That enables and brakes the small switch that can't move. I make careful research, find, pull upwards finger, brake, can come out release. Then I do it in that way: Really unexpected, so long as the figer tip provides the pressure of one ounce, the problem has been solved completely. I unusually inspire: Hey, I am really a first-class machinist!

My speciality has nothing to do with machinery. I do not have mechanical professional knowledge, unwilling to solve the mechanical problem too, I use time on non- mechanical field. Under most situations, I would rather seek help from the repairman. I know now, this is totally my own choice, what defects but not there are the genes. I believe that unless there is a intelligence obstacle, otherwise so long as spend time studying, have no problems and can not solve.

A lot of people did not pay for time and energy, went to solve the problems of the knowledge, social activity, psychology - --Just like my attitude towards mechanical question. Before repairing and teaching beginners by machinery, if I lacked the patience that day, will stretch the head under patient's car instrument board, tear several ends of a thread carelessly, see that comes to naught, I will shrug toweringly, stand stand hands say: "I am sorry, I find out what is it about, I think you at I can help. " A lot of people handle problem, take such an attitude? The above-mentioned financial teacher is in fact that one is full of love, quite diligent mother, but not in charge of two children well really. The child's mood appears unusually, or the home education goes wrong, she will be aware of soon. She will only usually follow the reacting extempore of the brain, employs the authorities of parents at will, for example forcing children to eat more breakfast, go to bed etc. ahead of time. Though do so and produce little effect, she seldom considers whether the similar way can solve the problem. All the different kinds having no choice, she has to apply to me for help finally, say to me annoyedly: "I have no method at all to take them, what shall I do? " This women head is clever, so long as no longer prevarication does not do one's job conscientiously at the work, will demonstrate extremely strong ability, but in solving family's contradiction, the person that she becomes with low intelligence at once. The key to the question lies in her to on the use of time. The family problem lets her feel dizzy, she only wants to get away as soon as possible, shortens the time that oneself and question contact as soon as possible, unwilling to take time to deal with such uncomfortable feeling, unwilling to analyze the question calmly. Though solving the problem can bring the sense of achievement to her, she does not want to postpone this kind of sense of achievement at all, even even not all right in one minute, she does not have any effective experience since accumulating in the question finally, Mobile POS|Contactless POS|Fingerprint POS|Credit Card Terminal|Point of Sale the family falls into the confusion for a long time. 

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